EACH PERSON WE MEET IS OUR TEACHER AND STUDENT
Bruce Schneider, the founder of my coaching program, IPEC, states, “The purpose of a relationship is to remember more of who we are in “relation” to one another.” We attract people into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime, but always for a learning and growing learning experience. I knew this before and I agree 100%!
How many of you understand this principle of learning and growing? When I have an experience with a person, male or female, I know that I will definitely learn something from them!
I’ll tell you a brief story of a man I dated twice recently! I met him at a live event. We were both the same faith, not religious and had similar political values which are important to me. However, after two dates, he wanted to see much more of me and said that 1-2 times a week wasn’t enough for a serious relationship! I have my coaching business, my male and female friends, my dancing, my art and I love to travel plus several other interests. He then asked me if I would have time for him! I quickly realized that he was co-dependent and didn’t have his own life! He has an 18- year old son who is going off to college in the Fall.
This fortunately, brief experience helped me realize that since both my parents were deceased in 2011 and 2015, I have created a lovely life for myself with several new female friends and working on my health and my apartment! I am having some new bookshelves delivered today and my Murphy Bed made electronic so I don’t need to do it manually!
I have put in a lot of effort to be happy by myself and fulfilled! J I just want a man to be part of my life, to add to my fulfillment and joy!
I have booked a cruise to the Caribbean in December that leaves from Ft. Lauderdale so I have something to look forward to once the summer ends!
As you may know, I have created a Facebook group to talk about our hopes, dreams, fears and blocks about meeting a man. Please feel free to join and support one another if you are interested in meeting someone to add to your life. Link is below:
ENJOY THE SUMMER!
If you have any questions please do not hesitate to ask me and I’ll be happy to respond!